How could it be he doesn't remember me?

Hi! I've had a relationship with a guy for almost 5 months. I cared about him, yet he only used me for sex. He was a player, he looked for other women over the internet while he was with me, and he also said to me he was in love with another woman.

I decided to break up with him, and started No Contact 4 weeks ago.

This time I didn't look for him again, as it were in the past (I tried to break up but we always get together again).

He just continued with his life. He once sent me a wink in a dating site thinking I was another woman, and when I replied "haha", he replied to me: "OK, you got me! ;)

This is so hurtful. Why he doesn't even care about me, or remember me? We spent 5 months seeing each other once per week, laughing and having fun...

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  • He didn't forget about you, so really you want to know why he doesn't care. You answered your question, in your question with statements like these:

    1. I cared about him, yet he only used me for sex

    2. he was a player

    3. he looked for other women over the internet while he was with me

    4. he said to me he was in love with another woman

    5. he just continued with his life

    You spent 5 months having fun until YOU wanted something better, something more, something he is not willing to give you. Time to move on. It doesn't matter WHY he doesn't care, it only matters that he doesn't . . . Look for someone who wants you on more than a superficial level.

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What Guys Said 1

  • He doesn't care about you since you're just someone he uses for sex.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Why do you think he didn't remember you? It's just a wink, he may have sent it because he does recognize you?

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    • Well, he replied "you got me" like I caught him...

    • So because of that you assume he didn't recognize you? I doubt he forgot who you are.

  • So you think he's forgotten about you because of that wink he sent? Perhaps he just didn't recognise you because he didn't take a close look at the pictures, perhaps he sends winks to every single woman without really looking at their profile/pictures just to increase his chances, or perhaps he did it on purpose and wanted you to react.

    Nobody forgets another person completely. It may be that we no longer think or care about someone, but unless he's suffering from amnesia, he still knows who you are.

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