I work with the guy who has broken my heart. It ended badly. It's been 3 months of no contact, but almost 2 1/2 months was because I needed to take time off from work (I was a mess). Now I'm back at work and I still continue the no contact rule, including the no looking rule as well.
It breaks my heart that we were once lovers and friends and now I have no intentions of ever communicating again with him. Does he feel the same and is just complying with the no contact rule as well? Or do you think in time he will try to break the silence somehow? by the way, he still does look at me, I've caught him, and so have my friends. Thanks for your input
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Well since you said he broke your heart and not the other way around. If he is a good guy as in actually likes the relationship he had with you. Then chances are he is just waiting to see if you will cool down and from there see if things can return back.
If he is the type that doesn't care then, if he looks at you then chances he just trying to see how you are going. Provided with the fact you 2 work together. I think he would much prefer things not be heated in the workplace. That may be the reason.
Also some extra thoughts. You 2 are working together, whether you like it or not. Ex boyfriend or what not. You are still gonna have to break the silence. At least when it comes to work wise you are gonna have to break that silence. If the break up starts to act up in the workplace. Ain't going to be good for either one. So you gonna have to just keep it professional with him, if you have no itentions to renew things. It's kinda a no choice.
If it were any other place, school or some stranger. Avoiding is fine. However in the workplace. All I can say it ain't going to work out.1