I loved him, but he was very emotionally distant. He never said I love you, or ever really put any emotional work into the relationship.
I was always the one fighting to be in his life. If I didn't call and make plans, we would have never seen each other.
I am with someone new now, and this guy is better. He's much more affectionate and we have great communication.
But for some reason I just can't seem to shake my ex. I keep thinking about him for some reason all of a sudden. After the break-up with my first guy I was fine. I felt empowered and free, as well as relieved.
I felt so alone when I was with my ex. But why am I now feeling like I made a mistake?
My ex was moving across the country, and he never really talked to me about it. Then when he told me he was leaving in 2 weeks, I asked him what happens if he decides to stay down there? Then he said he didn't know. I asked him if he wanted me to come with him, and he said no. Even though I could have easily found work down there.
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When you dated this guy that you miss. Where you guys young? I ask because this sounded like me when I was younger, and I didn't know how to channel my emotions to show my first true love that I loved her. And well unfortunately she left cause of that...
I didn't mean to do this to her.. But unfortunately we where young.. I didn't mean to do this, but what can I say, we were young.
Anyways, years down the road now, I know where I went wrong, and I'm pretty sure she knows where she went wrong.
Why don't you try reaching out to him. I guarantee you he has changed now. I'm pretty sure he knows how to show and put effort into his relationships now. I do that's for sure. ( not that she taught me a lesson or anything) But I know now what to do and what not to do.
Give it a shot, what do you have to lose. And if your thinking of your ex, clearly this guy your with doesn't forfill everything your looking for.