Most Helpful Girl
You don't. But you should quit spending money on his worthless ass and put it toward your expected child. Your emotions didn't drive him out . . . he hung around as long as it was fun and now that things are getting serious he's going to bail. How long have you been supporting him? Is he jobless? Did he move into your house? Did he ever help pay for anything? I'm guessing that's a big fat NO if you have to feed him now and put him up in a hotel room. You've been played. He sounds like a real loser. This is why we shouldn't have sex with people unless we feel like they would make a good partner, parent, role model, etc. Because babies happen, whether we intend for them to happen or not. Unfortunate, yet another child will be raised without a father. What a disgrace.