I had a few drinks over the weekend and I made out with a guy that I'll probably never see again.
I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year now.
I'm not going to blame it all on the alcohol because I was fully aware of what was going on.
I'm faced with two options, but keeping it a secret is out of the question.
I know what I did was reeally really wrong and I do regret it so if you're just going to make some ratty comment, don't waste your breathe. moving on...
I'll tell the truth about every detail, but I need help as to how I'm going to do it. I'm waiting until after he graduates (tomorrow) and I'm trying to be the greatest girlfriend I could be until then. But when I have to do what I gotta do, how should I go about it?
I more or less expect help on this... tbh, I guess I'm just looking for some magical answer that doesn't exist.
This isn't going to turn out pretty, no matter what angle I take.
But if you can think of a way that will make him just really angry and not heartbroken, let me know... I feel really terrible for what I did. But I can live with him hating me forever as long as he isn't hurt ):
I'm not a bad person. I made a bad mistake, and I'll learn from it. But Right now, I just need help...
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Start with the "I'm not a bad person, but..." and just tell him you made out with a guy when you were drunk, and you deeply regret it. Tell him you've learned from it, and it won't happen again.
Keep it short, there's not reason to belabor it.
Then see how he reacts. If he's angry, well, that's to be expected , and not such a problem for you, right?
If he seems hurt, tell him you understand and you're terribly sorry for hurting him. Tell him that's what you are most stressed about, hurting him. It's the last thing you wanted to do.