My ex recently texted me after blowing me off repeatedly. He tells me that he missed me and really cares about me and wants to meet up. He also said he wants something romantic between us but he's scared and he doesn't wanna f*** up this part of my life.
He just got out of a two week long relationship tht really didn't work out so I think it made him realize what we had was special.
Should I meet up with him? And when I do what should I ask or say to make sure he' in this for ME and not some other reason?
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Dont be stupid!
"He also said he wants something romantic between us but he's scared and he doesn't wanna f*** up this part of my life" What the hell is that meant to mean? Does he just want sex? Surely if he misses you truly, he misses the romance and wants to fulfill that part of your life?
What kind of guy f***s another girl for two weeks and then comes running back to you wanting you back? Sounds like he wanted to shag the other girl so blew you off. Then realized what an absolute idiot he was, or messed up with the other girl, and now wants to get his cake and eat it.
So my answer is NO, however, you can't help who you fall in love with. If you feel like he does have good intentions, please make him wait for YOU. Make it on your terms. Tell him he has to prove it with ROMANCE. You aren't his plan be after f***ing another girl. If he loved you all along he wouldn't have been with her for two weeks and would've stayed with you. Frankly, sounds like a douche, but good luck :) you are so pretty and seem lovely, don't let a guy like that "f*** up this part of your life" .. (he's even warning you that he will)3