I often read "I lose interest in dating him/her once I find out that he/she cheated, no matter how compatible we are or how attractive he/she is"... but
What would you do if you find out years into the relationship (and possibly living together) that your love has cheated on an ex before? He/she never got caught and never regretted or felt guilty about it, but swears he/she has never cheated on you and will never cheat on you.
Would you break up even though you didn't see any signs that he/she's cheated on you, because
a. you start suspecting you were cheated on too
b. you believe him/her that he/she hasn't cheated on you, but you believe he/she will in the future?
Would you stay with him/her, because
c. there were no signs of him/her cheating on you.
d. you change your mind and people can change even without getting caught/feeling extreme guilt?
Most Helpful Girl
No I would not break up.
I cheated once before myself. It happened for many reasons but unhappiness, a souring relationship and no intimacy was the foundation of it. So I can identify with certain reasons anyone could cheat.
a) No, with a but. If our relationship has a very healthy sex life there it is a very low chance he would cheat unless he was hooked on it. Only if his sex drive towards me dropped off would I suspect
b) not good enough reason
C) Yes, for sure I would stay
D)yes, once a cheat not always a cheater. It depends on many factors. If one cheats it does you must ask why. Is it 100% the cheater fault?0
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