Most Helpful Girl
I actually think it's a great idea. You have to think of your children in this who ARE siblings. I know it might be awkward &/or difficult at times, but do it for their sake.---that's what the essence of being a good mother is. If your baby is brand new, you might have him tell her you do plan on meeting a little later on. I'm sure it's rather overwhelming with a new baby--the first three months can be very emotional & some women have post pardom depression. I'm not saying you guys have to become best buds, but it will make it easier on everyone if you can be cordial/get along so the kids can see each other & hopefully spend a little time at each others house in the future so they can know their sibling.