so I finally met up again with the guy I couldn't stop thinking about for the past 4 years... but it was completely platonic.
back then he said I was the perfect girl for him, but due to a huge misunderstanding nothing ever happened between us even though I really liked him, and in the end he thought I chose his friend over him so things were kind of awkward between us.
when we met up again we were right back to talking (and agreeing!) on everything and it felt really comfortable, but he was SO reserved towards me - nice but completely unromatnic. I really wanted to know if he also thought about me these last years or thinks that we have unfinished business, but the conversation didn't go in that direction.
i'm considering asking him to hang out again and really need to know: should I bring it up to get closure? or is 4 years too late and he'll think I'm crazy for even bringing it up? especially cause we were never even together... just almost :(
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I am a guy that was in somewhat of a similar situation and would love nothing more than the girl to contact me again, but I don't think she ever will. :(
I just feel like I've done all I can do, and yes, years ago now, but it's not even worth it at this point for me to do anything.1