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It either could be 2 things, he has no feelings for you or he's scared/shy and doesn't know how to take it to the next level. First of all the fact that you're his homies sister is kind of a problem. It's not really a rule but you could say its frowned upon if a dude was getting at his homies sister behind his back and especially using her for booty calls. (Not saying you are one) but its just something "bros" don't do at least not without talking it over. Unless your brother knows then yea, you guys are kind of just friends with benefits and he's just in for the sex. But then again it could be that he doesn't know or he's scared to date you. Some times guys just have a harder time with some females. No matter how many girls a guys had, there's always that one that makes him stutter and fall over. Maybe it's because you're his homies sister. Maybe you should talk to him about being in a relationship, be straight forward. If he can't take the lead, who will? I would be more than glad if a female talked me into a relationship.