Any hope of getting back with my ex-girlfriend?

I was in a relationship with my ex for years, and a couple years ago we got engaged. Then she broke it off, but we continued living together as exes. About a year ago, she started dating a new guy, and moved in with him half a year ago. I suspected it for a while, and she finally told me about the relationship a few months ago. I asked her to get back together with me several times, and she always refused, but she did visit with me a couple times a week to do date-type activities. Recently she had to move to a new city, and so I decided to move with her. She allowed this, but said I better not be doing this just to get back with her, and that I'd have to get my own place. I told her that was true that I wanted to get back together, but I also had other reasons to move. Her family has been really nice and even let me stay in their house a few days while I'm figuring out my arrangements, but she is always online with her new boyfriend, and it drives me nuts.

So my question is this: do you think there is any chance that she would consider starting a relationship with me again? This guy is coming to visit her for a while pretty soon, but while he isn't here do you think I've got a chance?

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  • why did she break up with you ? why did he continue to live with her even as being exes.. obviously you love her. What is it that bothers her because of which she broke up with you ? maybe if you could find that out , you probably could get her back .

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    • Well, I used to stay at home all the time and ignore her while I was playing video games all night. So I've been working really hard at going out and doing things. Actually, the times we've hung out are more like I think she wanted our relationship to be. But I don't get why she's still hanging out with this other guy now that I've changed. She offered to introduce us, but I didn't want to meet him. Did accidentally see them making out on the street the other day. Horrible...

    • If you ignore your girl , what will she think of you ? she will obviously try to find out someone who will give her time. I think you really need to "talk ' to her.. there is something wrong. Your were all the time home means I am sure you gave her time, its only when you were playing video games you ignored her. You really need to have "the talk" with her .

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What Girls Said 3

  • Wait...you up and moved to a new city for an ex that is clearly with someone else?

    Move on man. This is seriously unhealthy.

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    • Well, she does still hang out with me and talk and stuff. I think that means she might still maybe want something. What do you think?

    • No I think it means she's taking advantage of you. She's with someone else. Move on.

    • well, the other night I begged her to go back with me. I said if she could go out with me for a month, then I could move on. she said she couldn't do that right now, because she's with her new boyfriend, but if they end, she'll try with me again. what do you think I can do to break them up? I think I'm already causing a lot of stress in their relationship. only problem is that her mom told me I have to be nice to this guy or the family is going to exclude me in the future...

  • if it didn't work out in the first try then I dount it will happen again

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  • It doesn't look good. She's told you no, and she's obviously moved on. I think you're wasting precious time when you could be looking for someone new.

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  • I don't think you got a chance like even if she hangs out with you that's doesn't mean anything.you got to push yourself away slowly and try to move on when your ready

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