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You texted and called him enough times now so lay off that for the time being. I don't blame him for getting upset over the last name thing of his daughter. Unless you had planned on breaking up with him you should have at least talked about the baby's full name and gave it much thought and consideration, and also after consulting with your parents. If he was the kind of guy that had put much into your relationship, you love him, and you would consider marrying him, then using his last name was the proper thing to do, or at least have it incorporated in the last name like "Smith-Johnson" or Johnson-Smith". If you've offered to change the last name to his it's up to him to respond back to you and he will. Right now he needs a little cooling off period so give him that. Once he stops to think about your offering to change the name to his it'll be much better for the two of you to talk about his and your future. If you think he'll be in the picture in some manner down the road as the baby grows up, it's only normal for him to want his name in the picture, otherwise she'll be asking him that question, "Daddy, why am I called by my mother's last name?" So no, I don't think he permanently broke up with you, at least, not yet. You hurt his feeligs deeply and it will take some time for that to heal. Meantime, try to make him heal sooner by contacting him again after a few more days, but not 3-4 times a day. More like a couple times a week... if you love him that is. Good luck!