Did my boyfriend break up with me?

So I had my baby 3 days ago and I decided to give the baby my last name without telling my boyfriend but I let him name the baby and give her 2 middle names.. he's mad at me he told me that we can just make our own decisions from now on and he said the only time I can call him is if I'm telling him about the baby.. I texted him and told him that we can change the last name to his if he let me give our daughter one middle name but he didn't reply I texted him 3 other times but he didn't reply and I called him 4 times.. I don't know if he broke up with me.. I just don't know what to do... please help

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  • You texted and called him enough times now so lay off that for the time being. I don't blame him for getting upset over the last name thing of his daughter. Unless you had planned on breaking up with him you should have at least talked about the baby's full name and gave it much thought and consideration, and also after consulting with your parents. If he was the kind of guy that had put much into your relationship, you love him, and you would consider marrying him, then using his last name was the proper thing to do, or at least have it incorporated in the last name like "Smith-Johnson" or Johnson-Smith". If you've offered to change the last name to his it's up to him to respond back to you and he will. Right now he needs a little cooling off period so give him that. Once he stops to think about your offering to change the name to his it'll be much better for the two of you to talk about his and your future. If you think he'll be in the picture in some manner down the road as the baby grows up, it's only normal for him to want his name in the picture, otherwise she'll be asking him that question, "Daddy, why am I called by my mother's last name?" So no, I don't think he permanently broke up with you, at least, not yet. You hurt his feeligs deeply and it will take some time for that to heal. Meantime, try to make him heal sooner by contacting him again after a few more days, but not 3-4 times a day. More like a couple times a week... if you love him that is. Good luck!

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What Guys Said 3

  • When you gave your daughter your last name, you basically told your boyfriend that you don't expect him to stick around since the vast majority of children get their FATHER's last name. I think you two should have talked about the name in more depth but hindsight is 20-20.

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  • It seems that he doesn't really like of having the baby.

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  • is he your baby's daddy? or is he being like a step-dad?

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What Girls Said 3

  • hes angry at the moment so that's why he hasn't replied or answered his phone but he obviously wants to be in the baby's life. it does sounds like a break up but it also seems like something you two can sort out.

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  • let him come to you, stop trying to tlak to him.

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  • Why would you just give your baby your own name and not his? that was a slap in the face, two middle names don't make up for a last name, you brought it on yourself

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