I love this girl who's 4 years older than me, and she loves me back, but she says she's too old for me

I've need of an older woman's opinion: Is she too old for me?

I have never met anyone as lovely as her, and I am tormented. She says she likes me back, but it seems like she is not telling me something. How can I convince her that she is beautiful, intriguing, unique, and all around perfect! TO ME! She says it would be weird if we got together, as I'm 4 years younger than her. I always answer "So?" I've told her time and time again that she is the lady of my dreams, but she doesn't want to hear it.

I also tell her that age is just a number. Again, she doesn't want to hear it.

She says it's sweet of me to tell her all this, but she still says I'm she is too old for me.


Most Helpful Girl

  • When you are your age, 4 years can be a big difference. If you're say, 23 and she's 27, not a big difference.

    • She says she's getting married in her 20s, but I guess you are right.

    • but like I said before: Age is just a number

    • but like I said before, age is just a number

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What Girls Said 3

  • i don't think ahe should be important in love

  • i think that you should respect her opinion

  • yes she is. if she already thinks that she won't change her mind.


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