I can't stop thinking about having a new boyfriend. I need help?

So my boyfriend broke up with me about a month and a half ago. I've come to the conclusion that I don't think I really liked him that much and that I was just into the idea of him. I want to really meet someone new now and that I will really like. I can't stop thinking about it. Wherever I go and I see guys, I think about whether or not they are good looking or not and if they look like my type. I don't know if its just me who does this or not and if its normal. I think I was like this anyway even before my ex-boyfriend I would do this all the time. I feel like it annoys me though. Any advice?

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  • It's not abnormal but it is unhealthy. You're right, you're in love with the idea of having a boyfriend, which doesn't necessitate liking the person who has the title. As much as being a trophy husband sounds really awesome to me for you it will only cause you trouble. Advice? First note that you're in love with an ideal. Then note that this is unhealthy and pointless and will lead you only to pain. Then decide consciously and subconsciously that it's not worth it. Then train against the thought.

    It's a lot of work. Odds are high you won't do it. I hope someone else comes along and gives you an easier alternative like "OMG JUST BUY AN ESCORT!"

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What Guys Said 2

  • Peace cannot be found in another person young grasshopper, it is found in oneself. No one can complete another person, be it mentally or physically. Instead, one should seek completion for themselves first.

    Namaste.

    I'm just kidding, I'm talking outta my ass. Kind, sorta, but not really.

    You get the point.

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  • I have the same feeling. always look out for a girl who is my type and faithful and loyal but at the same time beautiful. kind of desperate. and I get irritated all the time. jealous if I saw a beautiful girl with another guy

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  • well just get mroe activities and repsonsabilities to take your mind of that.

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  • i think it is normal, why would you want to change that. just make usre that next time you do like the guy

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