"I'm sorry for hurting you. I did become interested in my boyfriend when I was still dating you, however things went sour with us long before that. Breaking up had been on my mind for a few months. I just kept talking myself out of it. I did not cheat on you, even though it looked bad because of how fast everything moved with my boyfriend. We just have something amazing that I can't explain. I'll leave it at that..." Who the hell says tht to their ex? We were talking on OK terms? She didn't see a problem with what she said then she starts becoming offensive towards me when I say I didn't need to hear that text. She's like you're not over me and never talk to me. I'm like don't contact me when I'm with my new girl. Apprently that set her off and then she threatened me with a restraining order. What is her deal?
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She wants to have her 'amazing' boyfriend, keep you as a friend AND for you to stay single. Even though she doesn't want you anymore, she doesn't want anyone else to have you either. She is NOT your friend. Sometimes people are only meant to stay in our lives for a short while, I think she is one of those people for you. I would terminate the relationship. Especially after learning that she was becoming emotionally attached to someone else during your relationship. She may not have physically cheated on you, but she did emotionally cheat! She has no respect for you, or the relationship you had, and she is only concerned about herself, let him have her. Good grief and good riddance. She threatened a restraining order? Are you kidding me? I would have told her not to flatter herself and ceased all forms of contact right then and there. She can't get a restraining order on someone who acts like she doesn't exist.