The Girl I have been dating is always so busy that I can hardly ever see her. (Although so definitely seems to hold back on her availability, she has three days a week off but will only tell me about one. And if we can't get together on that one she is OK with that.) At best once every 10 days but frequently once every 2 weeks or more. (And in between dates we don't talk at all and very little texting.) I have been doing everything I can to try to get time with her including changing my schedule to match hers. We have been dating for about 4 months and I am starting to feel like there isn't much point to continuing. We have a great time on every level when we are together but how can we develop a relationship when we never see each other or talk? Should I back off and let her come to me?
she can't seem to make time for us. should i back off?
What Girls Said 4
Maybe she's assuming you guys are casual..
I would start off by asking her which direction she see the relationship going..and move from there..good luck0
talk to her, tell her that you are willing to work things out0
talk to her about it0
talk to her about it and tell her you are willing to give her some space.0
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