The Girl I have been dating is always so busy that I can hardly ever see her. (Although so definitely seems to hold back on her availability, she has three days a week off but will only tell me about one. And if we can't get together on that one she is OK with that.) At best once every 10 days but frequently once every 2 weeks or more. (And in between dates we don't talk at all and very little texting.) I have been doing everything I can to try to get time with her including changing my schedule to match hers. We have been dating for about 4 months and I am starting to feel like there isn't much point to continuing. We have a great time on every level when we are together but how can we develop a relationship when we never see each other or talk? Should I back off and let her come to me?
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Talk to her about it, tell her what you wrote here. Don't say you'll leave her if she doesn't change, just tell her about your concerns. Then leave it alone for a while and let her come to you.
She's following the girls dating rule book but after 4 months, that's a bit excessive.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE