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Well I would not say you were being selfish. I know people don't want to miss the opportunity of having a vacation when they clearly see that they won't be having one for a long time. BUT, I know one thing. If you force her to go with you, she will. But she would not enjoy as much she wanted to because she did not want to come in the first place. So the way I see you have two options. Either try to help her understand how much, both of you, would love to go OR delay the vacation. Believe me you would not want to force her go with you and see a sad mom on the trip.