Do you prefer the guy making the first moves?
What Girls Said 19
i like it when a guy initiates certain aspects of the relationship, but I do believe a relationship is about give and take. if he makes the first move, then I should make the second. it would be very hypocritical of me not to give back any of the love that I'm being offered, and that's how ill show my appreciation for him making an effort just 4 me:)3
Yes, we expect men to make the first move, but I'm sure most girls will surprise you once in while by making unexpected moves, those cute random acts to show you how much we care & love you, we just like to do things when we fully feel/mean them. Plus, even though I think guys should make the first move, girls are the real driving force of any relationship, if you see that, you will agree with me that it's fair enough that guys make the first move :)2
Yes, for several reasons:
1° I'm sure he's interested in me
2° He's in control so that makes him feel "confident"
3° It's romantic (cheesy, I know)
I prefer that he make the first moves. Because to me that's just kinda custom...because I feel that if I make the first moves, that means he didn't and since I'm the one doing it he probably isn't that into me. that's just how I feel about it personally1
i much prefer having the guy make the first move and just tell me how he feels about me. I am kinda shy and get nervous about what will happen if I say something first.1
Totally I prefer the guy making first moves it shows he is confident and I don't look silly if rejected1
HONESTLY, YES. Making the first move for me makes it look and feel desperate.1
I prefer to make the first move. :) Unfortunately a lot of guys DONT like that.0
I am too shy to make the first move =P1
I prefer the guy making the first move...I'm old fashioned like that.2
not every time.. it depends.. bcoz guys like it when the girls do it first. ^_^1
i do I really do, I just think it is a part of relationships that should never go away1
I like it when a guy makes the first move. He is in control but I can play with my answers because I know that my word will be last.1
yes, I like the guy to be dominant.1
I prefer it, yes.
I've never experienced it though, haha!1
yes so I know if he's really interested in me.1
Call me old fashioned but yes, I prefer guys making the first move.2
What Guys Said 7
That is typically the case5
I don't see the logic or understanding as to why is approaching, going after what you want, part of being a Man, did God say so or what?2
I personally prefer making the first move, but girls need to make their interest/hints clearer. I like the courting process, but girls need to have adequate bait for me to bite. As much as girls want guys to approach them many of them don't know their role in securing a date. It is not to sit and do nothing, but to show clear hints ( eye contact, smiling, touching etc) in order for a guy to know that he has the green light to make that move3
I don't prefer making the first move. I don't prefer it AT ALL!1
Yes they do, but what they don't understand is many women are even too timid to show any form of interest in a guy and they wonder why guys don't make a move.3
I predict the the guys will answer with roughly an even number on either side, and that the women will almost entirely answer by saying they want the men to make all the moves, because TRADITIOOOOOON~!5
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