This is a little long so pls bear with me. When my guy buddy told me he was thinking of getting back with his ex, I got a little 'crazy' in his words. I said some things which kinda made me sound jealous. I was because I fell for him and I am so attached to his presence. So for a couple of weeks after that conversation which I am sure now he knows I like him more than as a friend, we didn't really meet up or talk. I thought it's best I move on since I think he don't feel the same and I think he also gave me that space because I might have scared him a little/made things weird between us. I missed him like crazy those couple of weeks. I know he checks my FB so I posted pictures that hinted I am having a good time despite my heartache. Funny thing was he didn't see much updates so he asked accusingly if I blocked him. OK, basically, we're back to talking like normal and I still want us to stay friends. I said I didn't go crazy and why would I wanna block him. We're back to our usual routine of working out and having dinner together. He don't believe that exes should get back together so when I reminded him of this, he admitted he was considering getting back with her because he was sort of swayed by something she offered to get him. If you were in his shoes, your best friend went weird on you for considering getting back with your ex, you'd know for sure she/he likes you isn't it? Would you still want to hang out with her/him? I am still moving on and it's hard but I'm not cutting him off anymore because I find that I am less sad when I hear from him. I know I cannot expect anything but I'm still curious to know what he's thinking. He has other friends to hang out with so it can't just be because we're such awesome friends that he still want to hang out with me after my outburst. I'm a little embarassed to bring it up. Plus he teased me about going crazy. Any insights on whether there's more to him wanting to still meet me and make plans with me? We have a fund raising dinner to attend this weekend and he's already said he'd like to go together and after we could go for a drink, just two of us. He had something on that night supposedly but he rearranged his schedule for this dinner.
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"your best friend went weird on you for considering getting back with your ex, you'd know for sure she/he likes you isn't it?"
Yes, I'd know for sure she/he likes me.
" Would you still want to hang out with her/him?"
Would I like to hang out with someone who likes me? Yes.
" I know I cannot expect anything"
I don't understand why you conclude this.
"Any insights on whether there's more to him wanting to still meet me and make plans with me?"
He has concluded you like him. That is very attractive. He likes you, knows you like him, sounds to me like he's closing in, like forecast is for seduction, with a probability of teasing. I would say "Go confident into that seduction, young lady, he likes you a lot."0
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