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If he's so unhappy in his relationship he should try to fix it or get out. If I were to speak to someone about my relationship problems, I would choose a female friend. The fact that he is filling you in on all these personal details, makes me doubt the integrity of his character. That is completely disrespectful to his wife (speaking to another woman about their problems while flirting and 'wishing' to be with the other woman). Your really great guy might not be so great after all. Just giving you a different perspective, I fear he may have a less than honest agenda lined up.