My girlfriend's friend (our mutual friend) is cheating on her boyfriend of many years. She wants to marry the guy but doesn't get to see him all that often. Say maybe once a month for a few days. She has been hanging with a new group of girlfriends who "don't judge her" and also cheat and have flings with guys they meet at clubs. She is not the type of girl to cheat or even have flings. That is, she has never done so until now.
She met this guy at work and likes him and hooked up recently. My girlfriend told me about it and I know the guy. He's a decent guy and is very successful. But he is also very trusting so has no idea that this is going on behind his back. I do not consider him a good friend.
My question is if you can put yourself in my shoes, would you warn this guy or drop a strong hint, even anonymously, about what he is getting into. Or just stay out of their business?
- Stay out of it. It's none of your business.Vote A
- Tell him, straight up that his girl is cheating. Better for him to know now than 10 years into marriage.Vote B
- Drop a hint about it but don't outright tell him. If he asks, tell him.Vote C
- Tell him anonymously through a fake email.Vote D
What concerns me is that I do not want to have to see this guy and congratulate him on getting engaged when I know what's been happening behind his back. You know what I'm saying?