She met this guy at work and likes him and hooked up recently. My girlfriend told me about it and I know the guy. He's a decent guy and is very successful. But he is also very trusting so has no idea that this is going on behind his back. I do not consider him a good friend.
My question is if you can put yourself in my shoes, would you warn this guy or drop a strong hint, even anonymously, about what he is getting into. Or just stay out of their business?
- Stay out of it. It's none of your business.
- Tell him, straight up that his girl is cheating. Better for him to know now than 10 years into marriage.
- Drop a hint about it but don't outright tell him. If he asks, tell him.
- Tell him anonymously through a fake email.
What concerns me is that I do not want to have to see this guy and congratulate him on getting engaged when I know what's been happening behind his back. You know what I'm saying?