I dated this guy for a while, but then he broke up with me I guess because he didn't think I was the right girl for him.
We've talked after that about being friends and he said he was OK with that, although he never went out together again. I've stopped contacting him a few months ago after he replied to me in a rude manner.
I thought something was right with him at the time, but didn't think that was a good excuse for him to mistreat me and just backed away. He never contacted me since then as well.
I was thinking of contacting him about his favorite team winning the championship. Not to start any conversation really, but just because I noticed it and know he's probably happy. More like when you remember someone's birthday and you don't know if you should send a birthday note or not...
Should I just smack myself in the head and stay put, or it doesn't matter either way? What do you think?
And thank you for your comments. You're right, there would be no point in contacting him again unless I'm looking forward to look bad and being hurt again... Which I'm not. Thanks again.
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If she broke up with me then I would not. But If I broke up, then I would congratulate her on her achievement. The reason is: If she broke up with me and I congratulate her, then she may get a wrong hint that "oh he is dying to get in contact with me. now I can do what ever I want".
In your case, he broke up so I would not recommend doing that. However, if you run into him accidentally on some road or university or shop then you can congratulate him say something: "hey I heard you did win xxxxx...congratulations". As stated above, a dedicated contact may send a wrong message.1