So I got into a relationship about two months ago, when my ex knew about it, he came to my doorstep yelling at me saying that he still loves me and that I shouldn't be doing this to him and that he wants me back, that was on the day I announced getting into my relationship on Facebook.
I calmed him down and told him I would always be there for him and that I would be glad if he wanted to be friends. After a long talk we decided that we would be friends and since then we text/call 24/7 I see him more than my boyfriend. He always tells me that he loves me and I tell him that I love him too and every once in a while I mention him being a very good 'brother' now I don't know, I feel like leading him on, my boyfriend knows about him but he doesn't know that he loves me.
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This is a potentially disastrous situation. If your boyfriend finds out about your past relationship he might feel betrayed at least on some level. Your ex almost certainly thinks that what you have is more the friendship and almost certainly hopes you will drop your boyfriend and get back with him. I don't see how he could think otherwise when he gets more attention than your boyfriend does. How could this not end badly if you allow one of the two guys bring it to a head?0