Most Helpful Girl
If you are totally of no clue about the affair you will feel so CONFUSE but if you had some doubts and felt like he is doing something wrong before you found out then it will be different emotion like blaming yourself and trying to figure out what went wrong. If you will stay with your spouse after cheating then you both have to heal together and separately. It will end after you feel secure again in the relationship and after trust is back. Your spouse should do everything to get your trust back no matter what it takes. If your spouse is not willing to change or do anything for you to trust again then there is no point of staying. Hopefully this helps!