I have a guy who I've known since 9th grade, we are now 22. For a while we were "more than friends" but we were never technically in a relationship. Our group of friends introduced a new girl into the group and we all hung out. After he and I decided it wasn't gonna work, me and the group kinda stopped speaking for a few months. Now he's dating that same new girl, which I have no problem with, she's completely his type and we're back on speaking terms. Though I wouldn't say we're 'friends' again yet.
My question is, if you were in his shoes (change genders around if you're a female and would like to give some input), would the fact that she and I are hanging out together now (without him) bother you? Would it make you uncomfortable?
I was told by mutual friends that he didn't really want us to call it quits but went along with it to salvage our friendship since it's not what I wanted anymore. But I really like her and want to continue being friends with her, but I feel like maybe I'm making him uncomfortable by getting closer to her?
Any thoughts or opinions are helpful :-)
- I'd be umcomfortableVote A
- I wouldn't mindVote B
- Depends on _____ (comment please!)Vote C
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Somewhat, yes, but if they're really good friends, then I would refuse to break up their frinedship just for our relationship. If my ex and I weren't on great terms, I would just ask that she keep our relationship out of their conversations and to not hang out with her while she's with me. If my ex and I are on good terms, then I'd have no issue.0