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Not sure exactly but sounds like she could be apathetic because of the depression. My sister has needed medical help for depression for years but she has fought tooth and nail not to get treatment. Several guys have dumped her, she's got few friends, and her life just sucks. I don't know what it will take but she's not going to go willingly. Some people would rather live a sh*tty life than confront their issues and others, if they are depressed, illogically consider treatment to be ineffective and therefore pointless. Maybe she's just used to it and is trying her best to manage but it is difficult to finish school when you're depressed.
Well, sounds like you've done all that you can for her. We all have our limits and if she's not willing to meet you halfway by getting help then you guys won't be happy together anyway. Some people have to learn the hard way, meaning they have to reach their lowest point through their own actions in order to realize they need to start helping themselves. I feel bad for her but also for you. You can still be there for her as a friend and it may seem like not enough but in the big picture that's huge.