We were together for three years and have a daughter who is two, he has temporary custody. He cheated on me and after two wks of me finding out he moved in with this woman and this woman is taking my child to daycare and picking her up. I'm getting my daughter back we ( him and I) have a no contact order. But I'm madly sickly in love with this man and all I want it to get over him. I never had this much pain and I'm starting to get mad at myself for not being over him. How can I get over him. I'm tired of hearing " it takes time"