m the most faithful girl. I feel so taken advantage of and I feel like I can't deal with seeing him move on and progress without me. I know he's a sh*tty boyfriend but I can't forgive myself for giving him a second chance. HE told me he would make it up to me but this was the biggest dissapoinment ever since I was doing fine and living my life perfectly find after he left me the first time. Now it's like my world stopped spinning. What should I do to get back on track?
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Don't be that harsh on yourself. If you think that giving him a second chance was a mistake, just learn from that for the future, but don't torture yourself thinking that you shouldn't have. We all make mistakes cause we're human beings.
and this guy, or any other, doesn't deserve all the energy you're wasting on him. You're more valuable than that.
Life shouldn't be a contest about who does better after a break-up or who's over the other person first. So blocking him is a good idea. It'll help you move on.
And it's not about winning or losing, either. I think it's more about learning. And "losing" is always a great chance to learn. It'll make you stronger if you can let him go and learn from your mistakes.