Ok so me and this girl I met we have been talking for about 2 weeks now we've kissed and had sex already because she said she felt comfortable with me at first. She had came out a 3 year relationship recently its been 2 months and now I met her and everything the other day on Sunday I left her house cause I had to go work mind you the guy that she was with for 3 years cheated on her and he was basically living at her house her family loved him and everything. So its been 2 months since her break up and she really really likes me and wants to be with me but right now we texted last night she said give her time cause of her ex she still feels scared and hurt I really really like this girl I can see us dating for a long time me and her she's 20 and I'm 22. Her family loves me already I told her from the start I would never hurt a woman or cheat or lie to them I know what I want and that's her and I know how the world works already I live alone pay my bills I'm just looking to find a girl you know? I'm a lonely kid no sisters or brother and I want a girlfriend that's always there you know. But anyways I really like this girl she likes me and adores me she said she was falling hard for me so she said give her time please its only been 2 months since her relationship. My heart tells me to wait what do you guys think be honest please? Help :(
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if you like her as much as you say you do then you should be patient. simple as that. in the grand scheme of life if you need to take things slowly for a few months or even a few years wouldn't that be worth it for a lifetime with someone?
but something I would be concerned for and like someone said is that coming off a 3year relationship like she had I'd wonder if she was really ready for another serious relationship so soon. I'd probably try to keep my emotions and feelings for her checked a bit as a protective matter because, and I know from experience, being in a long term relationship ends in heartbreak I really wasn't ready to date three months after it1