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No, I don't have much of an ego or self confidence... So the idea that they'd chase after me in the first place is odd. Also I'm a logically minded person, I'm the kind of person who would say... if someone just broke up with me or I just broke up with them... It's clear either them or myself do not want to be in the relationship so why bother chasing?
I've actually never personally ended a relationship, I've had mutual breakups or been broken up with... But I had a girl get angry because I didn't seem that upset that she broke up with me and that I wasn't chasing her. I said, that I want her to be happy and if she ended the relationship she clearly doesn't want one to continue so why chase/argue. And why be upset, it accomplishes nothing, it just wastes time between relationships. Am I supposed to pine over it for months before I can slowly start to date again? Why not just accept it as soon as possible, cut your losses and be grown up about it and accept that it just wasn't meant to be, and that if it was/is, that it'll find it's own way.1