So I can't explain why but I was madly in love with my ex girlfriend for years. Even after we broke up and she moved on to other relationships, I was still hung up on her. I'm not one to fall in love easily so this girl was really special. There hasn't been anyone since her... but ever since I rid her from my life (she was confused and being selfish with her feelings) it has been going OK.
Today I was at a friend's party and I saw her there; she came up and talked to me, flirting and stuff even though she has a boyfriend. And everything just came flooding back. I'm not the type to replace a girl with another but I also don't want to always have something for this girl.
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I often wondered this. I've not been in a relationship with a guy since my ex and that was over 2 years ago. For a long time, I didn't want to meet any new guys. And even when I thought a random guy was good looking I wouldn't pursue him and it would just be my ex that I thought about. But I would say 8 months down the line, I was getting over him, met new people and since then I haven't even thought about him.
When people say the phrase: there are plenty more fish in the sea- it's for a reason! And you will realize that in your own time. Good luck1