I don't know if should trust him. What Should I Do?
What Guys Said 1
This isn't his child?
Then his reasons and response are understandable and probably none of your concern. I don't know why but I wouldn't question it unless you want this child to live with you and that entails a long legal proceeding, it's not like she can just move in.
I understand you feeling hurt and upset, this is a big secret to keep. Is there any reason you would believe he's lying about this and his mom is actually got custody of his kid? I've seen this before.
Trust isn't always easy, but legally you have no claim on the child yourself so there's nothing you can really do about it. Maybe if you trust him but explain how you feel that you're hurt he hasn't confided in you, etc and tell him that you hope that someday he'll be able to explain he might be more likely to respond. If you can't trust him over this then you're stuck, because your options are stay or leave.
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