So I am going through a divorce. I am deployed and told her about 3 months ago I want a divorce. I have a lawyer and am doing the paperwork needed to get it done.
We do not really talk, I was very angry with her for about two months and now I miss her. I miss just talking to her. I know why I am divorcing her and I'm sticking to my convictions but I been thinking about her lately. It sucks it had to come to this.
Although I realize many of you will speculate and be little me I can tell you that my business and reasons for divorcing her are private and not anyone on here will change my mind or ruffle my feathers by rude comments. I am simply asking one question not laying all my dirty laundry out there for people to pick through.
Why do I miss her? Why have I started to think about her more? Why is this getting harder now that telling her I want a divorce?
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The reality of the divorce has set in. Your anger has subsided. You're thinking more logically now, compared to when you were mad and thinking and making decisions off emotions.
My guess is, though you are proably not in love with her any longer, you like her company, and like her as a person.1