A "hostess" in Japan is like this:
Its a place where you pay hot young girls to talk with you, pour you drinks and light your cigarettes. "Technically" if you pay enough, you can take them out and eventually if you pay enough, you can have sex with them.
However, none if this is explicitly stated.
Anyways, do you guys think my train of thought is reasonable?
- Yes, if he goes to a hostess, its reasonable to break up with him.Vote A
- No, if he goes to a hostess, its NOT reasonable to break up with him.Vote B
- See answerVote C
It was just a conversation on twitter
Most Helpful Guy
Look, it's perfectly reasonable for you to draw the line at your boyfriend going to hostess clubs. Period. No other if's and's or but's.
However, there are other perspectives to this situation that make it a grey area.
Firstly, airing your private relationship laundry on twitter is a really bitchy thing to do, and if I was your boyfriend, I would seriously consider breaking up with you for that alone.
Secondly, depending on the guy's profession, there may be completely reasonable motives for him to go. If these motives conflict with your boundaries, then... well, that would be a conversation I'd recommend you have in private with your bf.