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How pricey is the rent where you're at? If its like SF/Bay Area, NYC or Seatlle?
So let me get this straight he IS saving money right? You're issue is that you feel he's saved enough but he feels he hasn't.
Honestly, when I was 29 I had to move in with my mom for 2 years. It was worth it, I was able to save up to buy a house when the market bottom'd out. Interesting enough, chick I was with at the time wasn't a fan of the move either.
You wanna move out, you should do it. Trying to "compel" your guy to move out with you is a bad move. Regardless of his story, making someone do something they don't wanna do is just setting your self up for disappointment.