If that was the only problem, I'd just tell him how I felt, and hopefully things would go from there, but there's more.
I've gotten to know this guy pretty well over the past year. I am even good friends with his ex girlfriend! (slightly awkward, but she's awesome!) The problem is, (and although I don't know for certain, but I believe this to be the reason they broke up) She is a very overpowering personality compared to this guy. He's pretty quiet, and a total pushover. I feel like he'd just let me walk all over him, and I don't want that! I don't want to be the leader in the relationship. I've seen him take responsibility and take the lead in many scenarios, so I need him to take a step up and "grow a pair" as it were... ha ha It's so obvious that I like him, but he just won't do anything about it!
Also, when we talk, he only wants to talk about me, and what I want to talk about, and when we hang out, he always wants to know what I want to do. It's like he doesn't have an opinion of his own!
I want him to know that I want to know more about him if any kind of relationship is going to work! I want to see how his mind works, and where he stands on different issues. I want to see him passionate about something! Not just politely going along with everything I want to do! Any guys out there that think you may be this way... STOP! grr!
So, any advice on how to deal with this?