So it's been more than 6 months after we broke up (almost 4 year long relationship), I'm almost 28 she's 26. We study in the same school masters she's orthodoncist and I'm endo. So at the beginning after break up I was constantly trying to get her back, and after a while I gave up but its been very hard for me since she was the dumpee.
Last time we talked for an hour she asked if I already liked someone and so on and I told her no. So this was like 2 weeks ago.
Last Saturday there was this party and I was SO DRUNK, I just say "hi" to her never apprached to her, but people say I was saying nasty things of her, not directly to her.. guess I was pissed that she was there and I know she doesn't want me back.
SO party ended and next day I felt sad for just seeing her.. So today I've tried talking to her twice to know if she's mad for some reason and she won't answer. I guess I pretty much blewed it. I already sent her message saying I didn't rmember what happened and if I offended her in some way I was sorry and that I was still ill , hoped she's doing well
So how should I act now? I mean it's pretty hard seeing her at school its awkward. SHould I just give a f*** ? I really hope we can be together again but I haven't really showed any interest in her, but I know she realices I still love her and miss her.
She says She misses me but right now she's focusing on herself and her friends and so on. She doesn't know if We will be together again. In this topic she does not say "We aren't gettiing back" she's just like "I don't know, not right now". I've been focusing on school, gym, gave up smoking, eating well, meeting girls I still miss her a lot but not showing
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Apologize for being an a**hole and tell her that you are going to take some time of no contact with her so that you can get your sh*t together.0