I'm not sure if I'm second-guessing myself and having these "fantasy thoughts" because I've been in this relationship for a while and my mind and body are just being "human", or if I'm REALLY not meant to be in this relationship anymore. When I picture my life in 5 years, I definitely see myself with my boyfriend - getting married, having a family, etc. So why do I feel like RIGHT NOW I should be messing around with my ex? I'm so confused and terrified as to why these thoughts are happening...
Do these thoughts tell me that this isn't right?
Do these thoughts tell me it's "normal" to second-guess myself because no relationship is 100% perfect?
Do these thoughts mean something in my relationship is lacking and needs to be worked on in order for me to fantasize about my own boyfriend?
I need opinions!