a little less than 7 months ago we had started talking and openly both agreed to have a sexual relationship and build a friendship while we were doing it, but to keep it at just that. I am not normally his "type". I have lost 75lbs since last October, and I am still going down. I started at 270. he likes thinner girls. but still we were just fooling around. as we got more into it he started to kiss me goodbye. And play with my hands while he played WOW. And I would rub his back. the more we went on we brought it up to each other. we got across that we still don't wanna date each other right now but we do care for each other and like to take care of each other.
i started helping him look for a studio apartment, we found one went and saw it and he moved in there 2 months ago. I sleep over and things have continued and he has seen another girl, but from context she isn't permenant. I've talked to guys too but he also knows they aren't permenant. he has a very touchy past. His mom killed herself when he was 11 to where then he was sent to live and be raised by a father that never planned on having children or attachments. He grew up very rough and has a hard time trusting people and he doesn't understand the concept of me, and doing things for him just because it makes me happy without needed something in return. he knows that I'm not leaving him and if he asked me out I would say yes. But becoming very close to him and having him open up to me about his dad and his ex girlfriend and his thoughts, I know that he isn't ready to be in another serious relationship yet, and I know enough to know that I don't wanna be dating someone who wishes I was someone else (he thought his ex was the one, his only match, and never having people stabily be there for him I can understand his strong feelings about it and her). Like I said I don't want to have him wish I was her so I have no rush to be in a serious relationship with him, no need to push him.
he makes me open up to new stuff. I care about him a lot and I know that he cares for me and like I said I'm in no rush. He calls me babe, not all of the time just when I won't expect it everything he does for me is in portion control because he doesn't want me to expect more because neither of us know where its going. We're friends at the least, does it sound like we'll be together?