I strongly feel that my boyfriend had a affair with another girl but I have no proof.
I have really gut instincts and I just know I'm right about this.
My instincts tells me its true but I'm afraid that I'm just paranoid because my boyfriend keeps emphasising nothing happened between him and this girl. But we bumped into her last week and her eyes gleamed and was so happy that she saw him, she was wayyyy too keen and ignored me.
I don't feel comfortabl at all with her being friends with him... Will I be a possessive/jeolous/bad girlfriend if I tell him to stop being friends with her?
And how can I get him to be honest about what happened with him and her? Or stop being paranoi and believe him when he says nothing is going on?
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The way I feel about this whole "Is my significant other cheating!?" scenario is, if you think they're cheating or you're worried about them cheating, break up. The whole point of having a girlfriend or boyfriend is to make your life better; to bring you happiness. As well as sharing your life with someone else. Is having a boyfriend worth the stress of always wondering about him?
You would indeed be possessive, jealous, etc. if you suggest that he stop talking to her since it's his job to decline advances from others out of respect for you and your relationship.
You can't. You can only trick him by saying you won't be upset and then regretting it for knowing the possible truth.0