Ive moved an hour away from my girlfriend of 2 months and I have some things that bug me a bit that I'm hesitant to talk about. I know in a relationship you should be open about your feelings and everything but I always hear that girls don't like when guys are insecure about something i.e girls cheating on them. I know my girlfriend is a wonderful girl and I really cannot see her cheating on me but these days you never know anymore :/ I've been cheated on in the past so its something that still sort of haunts me when it comes to relationships.
Should I tell her about my fear and risk looking really insecure?
not tell her and keep it to myself
PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER
- Tell herVote A
- Dont tell herVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Talk to her about it. So what you heard SOME girls don't like it when guys are insecure? Some guys don't like it when girls are insecure, does that mean nothing should be said at all and you should keep on feeling like that? No, ofcourse not! If you explain to her what you feel and why you feel that way, she'll understand and won't dislike it, but she'll be glad you trusted her and valued the relationship enough to work on it and let her know how you feel about things. So I suggest you let her know how you feel, what made you feel like that and talk about it with her.0
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