I'm 17, a while ago, a man came up to me and gave me his number. From visual inspection, he looked about in his lower 20's. That age difference didn't really matter to me, but once we texted and I got his full name and looked him up on social networking before saying yes to his date proposition... I found his Instagram, with pictures of his kids... 5 kids... he's 32... I also found his girlfriends Instagram. Not only was he lying to me, he's cheating on his girlfriend. He seems like he's done this before. Should I tell his girlfriend that he is cheating or just back off? I am really heartbroken, I'm not doing it out of revenge, but shouldn't she know her boyfriend is hitting on teenagers?
Should I tell his girlfriend he's cheating?
What Guys Said 5
glad you made the right choice. people seem to think that a "snitch" or "rat" is a bad thing like some how they compare truth telling it to childish tattle telling. then there are people who will say well think about his family do want to ruin that... as if truth telling were a bad thing.
as a person who's been cheated on I was extremely grateful to the person who had the character and cajones to tell me the truth1
He has 5 kids. Think about it. He possibly has more if he is hitting on you.
I would tell his girl for a simple reason. What if you were her? She is possibly taking care of his kids and trying to make a family while he is chasing you and another woman.0
I would definitely tell her, she has a right to know before he screws her over more than he already has.1
Yes, you should definitely tell her. She might not believe you, but she still has the right to know.0
No. I mean nobody likes a rat, and you don't want to be that person.0
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