Could he being leading me on or just confused?
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He's been stringing you on for longer than a year at least if his wife has had a baby. That's long enough to give a guy a chance to get divorced? I wouldn't find a man leaving his wife and child very attractive, but that's my opinion. It would just be a matter of time before he left you too. He's not confused he's very content in his situation and will tell you anything you need to hear to keep you on the side. He's having his cake and eating it too. Stop listening to your friends most people won't say anything to hurt your feelings. They'll lie along with you because it makes you happy.
You already know what you need to do or you wouldn't be questioning it. What you need to be asking is, 'How do I get myself out of this situation?'
It won't happen over night. I'd say talk to a counselor because I'm assuming you have some self esteem issues. Then get active with you friends, stay busy. Find hobbies you like that you will allow you to express your feelings (I prefer journaling and painting). I just have one canvas that I paint over and over again. Join meetup.com to find activities to do in your area. You have to fill your life with things about you not a man.
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