I want to get back together with my ex girlfriend. She's single for the time being but as we started a new semester at college and she's meeting all these new "interesting" people, I feel like the window of opportunity is rapidly closing. She claims that she's not interested in anyone and would rather take more time for herself but I know its only a matter of time before someone asks her out and she agrees. I want to ask her myself but I don't know how she feels about me anymore. She says she won't let herself date me again, something about having to change her whole mindset and emotions after we broke up. But that was months ago when she was in a very abusive relationship from which she's still healing. Lately we've been hanging out a lot more and I feel like she's been showing some positive signs or signs of interest. She'll punch me a lot, like in the stomach or arm, she'll rest her legs on me when we're sitting watching tv, she'll rub my chest with her legs and feet (sounds weird ik). Hmm what else? She'll sleep in my bed from time to time but then she'll yell at me for cuddling too much in my sleep. I should also mention I care very deeply about this girl. Yes she's my ex but I'm not trying to bring back our old relationship. I just believe that we're very compatible and that we could have an even better relationship this time around if she gave me a chance. I'm very confused by this girl so any help would be appreciated. thanks!
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I will say that if she really isn't interested in you like that then she shouldn't be so intimate with you. You'll need to find a way to get her to tell you how she feels about you. If she says she only wants to be friends then you'll need to draw the line and tell her that her laying in bed with you and resting her legs on you etc. is giving you the wrong impression. I wish you the best of luck and admire you for feeling this way, sticking to it and believing in it.0
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