While I would be OK with her not talking to me and being silent,she just goes beyond that. I cannot talk to her in a friendly manner, she gets mad because things "Are not ok"And gets irritated because I act like they are. Also, whenever I keep to myself and she has to say something to me, she is rude, slams stuff (notebooks, pens) at me and acts real bitchy. The thing that gets me is that, whenever I'm around, she has this EXTREMELY pissed off/serious look on her face, even if I'm not talking to her or bugging her, me being in the room makes her go all sour, if somebody talks to her she'll be OK but then she goes back to being all mad.
I know I screwed up and I have been REALLY nice to her and trying to patch things up, but she won't have it. SHe tells me to take her rudeness because I deserve it and mostly I do, but she will not tone it down. We used to talk allllll the time, bug each other, tease and laugh together but now she is like this and is like she completely forgot all the birthday surprises I prepared for her and a bunch of little, thoughtful details. She says she still gives me credit for those things, but is still pissed off.
The funny thing is that, although she won't talk to me, we can argue...as long as I'm not friendly, she'll get into an argument with me and we'll talk for a long time before we get interrupted and decide to stop...We even argue long distance, like if I write a note, the next day I'll see a reply to my note in a sarcastic tone, to which I answer and then the next day there will be another reply.
I just want her to stop being mad, I've told her I miss her but she just tells me she doesn't care. Is she going to stay like this?