just curious if it bothers them... even in cases where a relationship was still new, still maybe even in the infatuation stage?
We had really hit it off, but certain commitments on his side, he commented he believe we could not have anything serious, so I responded by ending it then and there. I could tell that he was pretty shocked that I did that.
I explained it was not what I wanted in my heart, more just being rational to avoid getting hurt. I made that very clear so he knew it wasn't because I didn't care about him, but still, just curious how guys feel in these situations.
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Why would a break up be any less of a bother for men than it would be women? Men are people just as much as women, you know. So some guys can take breakups well, or really badly. It just depends on the person.
As for your guy, in this situation, I assume he was just shocked that he got rejected because he probably assumed you'd be OK with fooling around, and nothing serious. Still, I think after a statement like that, unless he's a complete idiot, he probably knew that it would be a risk. He's obviously a little disappointed, but I'm pretty sure he'll bounce back and either continue on to somebody who want's something equally frivolous, or he'll find somebody he actually CAN picture a serious relationship with.*
(*Depending on the reasons he can't see something serious with you. Because really, I don't know if it's because he's not looking for something serious, and just wants to fool around with people, or whether he just doesn't see you both as a compatible match for the long term or what. But his reasons do matter.)
Either way, all things considered, if he doesn't see anything serious with you, I'm pretty sure that any disappointment he feels can probably fade pretty quickly given this situation, unless he is the kind of egomaniac who needs to have it all.
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