She said she wanted nothing to do with me and didn't want me to contact her.
I have not contacted her about a month now and I just ignore her.
However we work at the same place and she's got a boyfriend now
Now last week she tried getting my attention and talking to me I ignored her.
Two days later She then put a picture on Facebook with her and her new guy
Then two days after the picture she tried calling me a couple of times around midnight, think she was drunk. I didn't answer. This is the first time she's called me since we split
I have now heard she's talking to other colleagues about our split and her new boyfriend,
Yesterday she changed Her status on Facebook is in a relationship
Why is she trying to contact me after wanting no contact from me especially if she has a boyfriend?
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Sounds like she's trying to make you jealous.
1. The breakup was dramatic, and she made it clear she didn't want to keep further contact with you.. i.e. wanted to sound like she's done. But she likely isn't and hence she's called you.
2. It's way too soon to have a new boyfriend, specially after such a long relationship. She's most likely using the poor sod. I'd have my doubts if she didn't pursue any contact with you, but since she has... her actions speak for themselves.
3. She's most likely using Facebook to show "how great she's doing without you" in an attempt to get your attention.
Basically, she sounds like she's upset about the breakup and this is the way she's acting about it. If you have no intention on keeping in touch, I'd suggest you keep ignoring her or delete her from Facebook.
No need to make fun of her or add fuel to the fire in any way. I think that deep down she's hurting, but doesn't know how to deal with it in a more mature way. Just be the bigger person and let's hope this all ends. If anything, she'll just make a fool of herself.