Most Helpful Girl
If I was the dumper, I would be... curious to hear from my ex. I would not be annoyed... after a few months, it would actually be good to hear from him.
I know with myself (and lots of other people too), a part of me always regrets my breakups... I miss the person and wish I could see them. After a few months, I would definitely embrace the chance to see them again and see if I made the right choice, or if my feelings are rekindled (sometimes they are).
*****However, none of this applies if we ended on bad terms. If he cheated on me or something, I DON'T want to see him again unless he is giving me an apology. And then that would be our last meeting ever.****