how would you feel if your ex contacted you a couple months after the breakup? if you were the dumper, would you be annoyed, amused, happy, angry, etc? would your opinion change if they realized what went wrong in the relationship and are genuinely interested in improving?
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If I was the dumper, I would be... curious to hear from my ex. I would not be annoyed... after a few months, it would actually be good to hear from him.
I know with myself (and lots of other people too), a part of me always regrets my breakups... I miss the person and wish I could see them. After a few months, I would definitely embrace the chance to see them again and see if I made the right choice, or if my feelings are rekindled (sometimes they are).
*****However, none of this applies if we ended on bad terms. If he cheated on me or something, I DON'T want to see him again unless he is giving me an apology. And then that would be our last meeting ever.****2