Just wanted some input on how guys think. I have this guy friend that has turned into a pretty intense attraction. He's getting ready to move down to Mexico in 3 wks and just told me he loves me and that he doesn't want the anchor to sink any further or he may not go. I'm figuring he will go as I do want him to with his buddy to do some fishing and surfing. But I know he's digging me way harder than he wants. What goes through a guys head when they dig a girl but know that they're leaving, but spreads it on thick before he leaves. Does it cross his mind that he could lose me, will I be on his mind a lot while he is gone. How do men handle such emotions? Would you consider not going at all or know that you would be back for her?
If you were diggin a girl but had planned to move...........
What Guys Said 1
I once held myself back from moving for a woman because I was in love with her. It wasn't worth it, honestly -- you can't give up your dreams for someone else.
Nowadays, I'm kind of terrified of the thought of falling in love with someone because I move around a lot. If I did, it'd be bittersweet -- I know I'd be glad I loved her, and had the chance to feel that way for someone, but I would only be slightly tempted to stay for her, and it'd be squashed pretty quick.0
What Girls Said 1
He's ready to lose you
He's OK with that it seems like0
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