im 7 weeks into a horrible breakup. my ex basically destroyed the relationship with a few acts of horrific selfishness that has smashed the relationship. the first 5 weeks of the break up me and my ex tore each other to shreds at every chance we got until we agreed to no contact. after 2 weeks of nc my anger at he has gone which is making it harder to get over her. I'm starting to dwell on the good time we had and the ones we'll never have. the thing is I don't want her back I don't regret ending it and I know that she's a horrible person but these thoughts are really stopping me.
this is my first break up so I'm sorry if this is a stupid question but is what I'm feeling a natural reaction and will it fade in time?
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I am sorry that you feel this way. Sometimes people say mean things and don't mean them, but since you are missing her do you think maybe you might possibly want to work it out? See if the two of you can talk as friends by simply being nice to one another and what happens from there. It makes me feel better knowing that a man does miss his ex without contact though lol sorry